Mehndi: The Khawajas invite you to wear a Desi lewk if you so please. Hit us up if you’re interested and need some guidance on browntown garms. Otherwise, wear something you feel goooood in.

Wedding: Wear something that will make us look cool to future generations. Be a lil’ extra. Stunt a bit. Statement piece. Take a risk. Flaunt. Feel fab. Platforms not spikes. It is the jungle. Don’t forget your swimsuit if you’re feelin’ adventurous and want to get into the beautfifulcandlelitcenote with us.

Brunch:The Wheelers invite you to come as you are post-party.

We love all your little families, but because so many of you have them (we’re old!), we cannot accommodate kids at the wedding. They’re welcome at the mehndi and the brunch, though!

We invite you to come take a child-free long weekend if you have the support at home. Or, some folks choose to bring someone from home to watch the kids during the events.

With advance notice, we can also help organize childcare with sitters our wedding planner works with regularly and who you can meet beforehand.

Listen, we’re asking you to schlep quite a distance to come and celebrate with us, so let’s make this as clear as possible:

GIFTS ARE NOT EXPECTED.